Women's Rights and Controversies in Islam # 2
 
 
by Kaukab Siddique
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A church group in West Grove, Pennsylvania, asked Dr. Kaukab 
Siddique a number of questions based reports in the 
media.
The questions, each followed by Dr. Siddique's answer, are 
listed here.
Questions and Answers:
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Q. Women seem to be totally under male domination in Muslim 
countries. This can be seen in the heavy veils they wear. 
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Ans: During colonial times Muslims became inward looking in 
their approach to religion in their attempts to safeguard 
their way of life from the Europeans. As a result they 
became conservative and restrictive in their attitudes 
towards their own women. Many of them started confusing 
CONSERVATISM with religiosity. Males used the situation to 
impose their dominance on women. Thus, among the older 
generations of present day Muslims, purda or hijab is worn 
usually owing to insistence by males or to please males or 
often because the males consider women their property.
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However, RESURGENT ISLAM sees the purda and hijab very 
differently. Here the Islamic dress is the sign of a woman's 
acceptance of the WILL of ALLAH and as a form of resistance 
to Euro-American hegemony. University women are now wearing 
the complete outer covering signifying their pride in being 
Muslim, their love of Allah and their refusal to be 
objectified as commodities in the consumer market. The more 
radical among them also wear the face veil.
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Q. What about female mutilation?
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Ans: You probably mean female genital mutilation? ["Yes" 
from questioner.] All forms of mutilation are forbidden in 
Islam. Even in war, mutilation of enemies is not permitted. 
Female genital mutilation [FGM] is a pagan custom prevalent 
in tribal cultures in Africa and parts of Asia, including 
India. In some Muslim cultures where Islamic rights of women 
have been sidetracked, this abuse of women occurs.
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To fully understand the Islamic opposition to female genital 
mutilation [FGM] one must understand the Islamic view of 
sexual pleasure. FGM is carried out to deny sexual pleasure 
to the female. By contrast, Islam recognizes the right of 
the female to sexual pleasure EQUAL to that of the male. The 
Prophet, pbuh, answering a question about whether a female 
too has sexual desires and dreams made his famous comment 
that: "Women are the twins of men." (1) In Islam, a woman 
can sue for divorce if her husband cannot give her sexual 
satisfaction. There is an entire chapter in the Qur'an about 
the woman who complained to the Prophet, pbuh, about her 
husband ignoring her and claiming that "her back to him was 
like the back of his mother." The Qur'an supported the 
woman. (2)
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Q. Doesn't the Qur'an say that a man should treat his wife 
as if she is his "tilth" and that she should be subservient 
to him?
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Ans: The verse [in chapter 2 of the Qur'an] legitimizes 
sexuality and links it to having children. Sex is honored in 
Islam between husband and wife and marriage is strongly 
encouraged. The verse's audience are MEN. It is not 
addressed to women and it does not tell women to be 
subservient. [3] In fact Islam does not allow, in ANY of its 
texts, a man to force himself on his wife. Islam however 
does teach the wife to be accepting of the husband because 
she is all he has. He cannot fornicate or commit adultery 
and the punishments for such acts are severe. So, if a wife 
keeps denying her husband's needs "the angels curse and 
leave the house." [4]
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Q. We have seen pictures of the Taliban shooting a woman and 
beating women in enforcing the burqa or strict Islamic 
dress. Isn't that harsh?
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Ans: CONTEXT is essential in understanding people and 
nations other than ours. Afghanistan has been ravaged by war 
ever since 1979, that is 32 years. It fought Soviet 
occupation and more than 7 million Afghans became refugees. 
After the Soviet withdrawal, the U.S. refused to support the 
establishment of an Islamic government in Kabul. The result 
was civil war and the general breakdown of law and order. 
Now the country is occupied by NATO and the war goes on. 
During the civil war, crime and brigandage became common. 
The people appealed to a Taliban leader named Mullah Umar to 
save them, in a specific case of rape. Mullah Umar hanged 
the rapist and drew support as he moved from village to 
village. Finally the Taliban under his command captured 
Kabul. Within that context, a woman and a man were executed 
by the Taliban after being convicted. The conviction was 
carried out in a stadium so that the public may attend and 
realize that the rule of Law would be enforced. An agent 
from a fringe communist group, known as RAWA, photographed 
the execution and passed it on to U.S. intelligence. It was 
shown about a million times on CNN and other media and 
became the source of propaganda to demonize the Taliban and 
to justify war against them.
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The Taliban imposed burqa on the women of Kabul and there 
you have the second photo of a woman being hit with a stick 
by a Taliban regulator. Again, this was used to justify U.S. 
military intervention. The source of the photo was again 
RAWA. At this point Hillary Clinton took on the cause of 
Afghan women. Most people did not realize that Kabul was the 
base for Communism in Afghanistan. The Taliban captured 
Kabul but the total punishment they imposed was ONE 
execution and a few beatings wih sticks. Compare with other 
cities which have been taken by force. The Soviet took 
Berlin and other German cities and RAPED EVERY GERMAN WOMAN, 
from age 8 to 80. [5]The U.S. occupation forces often "took" 
starving German women for nothing more than a chocolate. 
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The RESURGENCE of the Taliban, 2005 till today, has become 
possible owing to the support of Afghan women. The Taliban 
are fighting NATO and winning because the women are telling 
their sons, husbands and brothers to go and fight the 
occupiers. It is said that the women do not want to see the 
face of a husband who does not oppose the occupiers. NO 
WOMAN HAS EVER BETRAYED THE TALIBAN. Thus the stories of 
Taliban being against women are nothing more than war time 
propaganda.
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Q. What about honor killings? Why are they permitted in 
Islam?
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Ans: Islam STRICTLY FORBIDS all violence against women 
including "honor killings." In Shari'a Law, a man who 
expresses suspicion against the chastity of a woman must 
bring four witnesses or such expression could result in 
severe punishment. Gossip against innocent and/or 
naive/careless women is strongly prohibited. [6] "Honor 
killings" do take place in Muslim countries, not owing to 
religion but owing to conservatism where the man thinks the 
woman is his property. Similar crimes are committed in the 
USA and are related to the activities of "stalkers" who have 
a similar view of women. The highest rate of "honor" 
killings is in Jordan, a highly secularized but conservative 
country. Its king is a playboy whose exploits feed the male 
ego of Jordanians. His father used to work for the CIA, so 
the moral quotient is very low
 
REFERENCES:
1. Hadith, Sunan of Abu Dawud.
2. The Qur'an, chapter 58.
3. Chapter 2, verse 223.
4. See 2:228 for mutuality of rights. Men have a "degree" 
above them only in divorce because they don't have to wait 
for re-marriage. Men often use this verse to claim 
superiority.
5. 
Armageddon. The Battle for Germany, 1944-1945 by Max 
Hastings
6. The Qur'an 24:4
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